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REFLECTIONS

REFLECTIONS

Smlm ziarah sepupu yg sama umur dan rapat dgn aku masa kecil2, dia dan adik beradik dia dgn aku kira satu geng, bila jumpa mmg kami kamcing. Tapi dia dah lama dah diuji Allah dgn masalah kesihatan kidney failure and stroke sejak dari muda. dah berbelas2 tahun kena dialysis. mata dah x nampak kelabu, jalan, makan semuanya terpaksa bergantung kpd isteri dia. wife dia dok jaga dia sejak anak2 dia kecil. Sabar sungguh dia. org lain ada suami yg jg isteri tp dia kena jaga suami bertahun2. Masuk hospital sbb jari kaki dah kena potong sbb gangrene dn ada infection n badan panas. tapi amazingly solat tak tinggal 5 waktu. cuma x p masjid surau sbb uzurnya.

Balik hospital dok pikr yg aku nih masih kuat, ada tenaga boleh naik moto lama2, p sana p sini boleh p jogging, nd weight lifting and all sorts of things. but yet, banyak keluh. n bnyk benda x buat. walhal ada kudrat lagi. punya x bersyukur.....Allahu robbi!!! Tapi smlm aku sebak sbb dia dok kata sakit kaki.... ujian Allah nak bagi dia dapat pahala sabar... kalau la aku mcm tu ada nk boleh tabah sabar... 

My point is, be grateful to Allah for what we have and do not complain and abuse the 5 things that the Beloved messenger pbuh told us: HEALTH,  FREETIME, WEALTH, YOUTH, KNOWLEDGE. BE GRATEFUL ALL THE TIME AND MOST OF ALL FOR HAVING THE TAUFIQ TO PRAISE ALLAH WHENEVER U WANT TO.

Wallahu alam.

QUOTES BY UMAR AL-FAROOQ

Inspirational quotes on success by Umar bin Khatab .

Umar ibn Al-Khattab (RA) was one of the most powerful and influential Muslim caliphs in history. He was a senior companion of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). He succeeded Abu Bakr (RA) (632–634) as the second caliph of the Rashidun Caliphate on 23 August 634. He was an expert Muslim jurist known for his pious and just nature, which earned him the epithet Al-Farooq (the one who distinguishes – between right and wrong). May his quotes inspire you to be a good person and an individual of action.

1. “The best way to defeat someone is to beat him at politeness.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

2. “Do not grieve over what has passed unless it makes you work harder for what is about to come.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

3. “Whosoever shows you your faults is your friend. Thos that pay you lip service in praise are your executioners.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

4. “I have never regretted my silence, as for my speech I’ve regretted it many times.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

5. “The less attachment to the world. The easier your life.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

6. “Remind yourselves of God, for it is a cure. Do not remind yourselves of the people, for it is a disease.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

7. “A man should be like a child with his wife, but if she needs him, he should act like a man.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

8. “The most beloved of people to me is he that points out my flaws to me.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

9. “Learn the Arabic language; it will sharpen your wisdom.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

10. “Sit with those who love God, for that enlightens the mind.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

11. “Go easy on yourself, for the outcome of all affairs is determined by God’s decree. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from you it cannot flee.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

12. “Sit with those who have sinned and repented for they have the softest of hearts.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

13. “Learn dignity and tranquility.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

14. “No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

15. “Sometimes the people with the worst past, create the best future.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

16. “Get used to a rough life, for luxury does not last forever.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

17. “My heart is at ease knowing that what was meant for me will never miss me and that what misses me was never meant for me.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

18. “Patience is the healthiest ingredient of our life.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

19. “To be alone you avoid bad company. But to have a true friend is better than being alone.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

20. “Be dignified, honest, and truthful.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

21. “When one’s intention is sincere, God will suffice his needs, protect him, and guide him in his dealings with the people.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

22. “Let not your love become attachment, nor your hate become destruction.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

23. “To speak less is wisdom, to eat less is healthy, and to mingle less with the people is safe and serene.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

24. “He who wins through fraud is no winner.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

25. “The women are not a garment you wear and undress however you like. They are honored and have their rights.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

26. “God loves moderation and hates extravagance and excess.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

27. “He who does not live in the way of his beliefs starts to believe in the way he lives.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

28. “Doing good for a good done to you is simply repayment, whereas doing good for an evil done to you is a tremendous virtue.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

29. “Don’t forget your own self while preaching to others.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

30. “Acquire knowledge and teach it to people.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

31. “The wisest man is he who can account for his actions.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

32. “I wish you knew what I have in my heart for you, but there is no way for you to know except by my actions.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

33. “Do not put off today’s work for tomorrow.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

34. “Patience is a pillar of faith.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

35. “May God bless the man who says less and does more.” Umar ibn Al-Khattab

REZEKI

ADA 8 JENIS REZEKI DARI ALLAH

1.Rezeki Yang Telah Dijamin.

‎وَمَا مِن دَابَّةٍ فِي الْأَرْضِ إِلَّا عَلَى اللَّهِ رِزْقُهَا وَيَعْلَمُ مُسْتَقَرَّهَا وَمُسْتَوْدَعَهَا كُلٌّ فِي كِتَابٍ مُّبِينٍ
"Tidak ada satu makhluk melatapun yang bergerak di atas bumi ini yang tidak dijamin ALLAH rezekinya."
(Surah Hud : 6).

2. Rezeki Kerana Usaha.

‎وَأَن لَّيْسَ لِلْإِنسَانِ إِلَّا مَا سَعَى
"Tidaklah manusia mendapatkan apa-apa kecuali apa yang dikerjakannya."
(Surah An-Najm : 39).

3. Rezeki Kerana Bersyukur.

‎لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ وَلَئِن كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِي لَشَدِيدٌ
"Sesungguhnya jika kamu bersyukur pasti Kami akan menambah (nikmat) kepadamu."
(Surah Ibrahim : 7).

4. Rezeki Tak Terduga.

‎وَمَن يَتَّقِ اللَّهَ يَجْعَل لَّهُ مَخْرَجًا( ) وَيَرْزُقْهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا يَحْتَسِبُ
"Barangsiapa yang bertakwa kepada ALLAH nescaya Dia akan menjadikan baginya jalan keluar dan memberinya rezeki dari arah yang tidak disangka-sangkanya."
(Surah At-Thalaq : 2-3).

5. Rezeki Kerana Istighfar.

‎فَقُلْتُ اسْتَغْفِرُوا رَبَّكُمْ إِنَّهُ كَانَ غَفَّارًا ( ) يُرْسِلِ السَّمَاءَ عَلَيْكُم مِّدْرَارًا
"Beristighfarlah kepada Tuhanmu, sesungguhnya Dia adalah Maha Pengampun, pasti Dia akan mengirimkan hujan kepadamu dengan lebat, dan memperbanyak harta.”
(Surah Nuh : 10-11).

6. Rezeki Kerana Menikah.

‎وَأَنكِحُوا الْأَيَامَىٰ مِنكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَائِكُمْ إِن يَكُونُوا فُقَرَاءَ يُغْنِهِمُ اللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِ
"Dan nikahkanlah orang-orang yang masih membujang di antara kamu, dan juga orang-orang yang layak dari hamba sahayamu baik laki-laki dan perempuan. Jika mereka miskin, maka ALLAH akan memberikan kecukupan kepada mereka dengan kurnia-Nya."
(Surah An-Nur : 32).

7. Rezeki Kerana Anak.

‎وَلَا تَقْتُلُوا أَوْلَادَكُمْ خَشْيَةَ إِمْلَاقٍ نَّحْنُ نَرْزُقُهُمْ وَإِيَّاكُمْ
"Dan janganlah kamu membunuh anak-anakmu kerana takut miskin. Kamilah yang akan menanggung rezeki mereka dan juga (rezeki) bagimu.”
(Surah Al-Israa' : 31).

8. Rezeki Kerana Sedekah

‎مَّن ذَا الَّذِي يُقْرِضُ اللَّهَ قَرْضًا حَسَنًا فَيُضَاعِفَهُ لَهُ أَضْعَافًا كَثِيرَةً
“Siapakah yang mahu memberi pinjaman kepada ALLAH, pinjaman yang baik (infak & sedekah), maka ALLAH akan melipat gandakan pembayaran kepadanya dengan gandaan yang banyak.”
(Surah Al-Baqarah : 245).