Seven Qualities that Allah Loves
1. Tawbah (Repentance)
"...For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly (in repentance)..." (Surah Al Baqarah 2:222)
Repentance is a form of detoxification – Sincere repentance cleanses and beautifies the Iman (faith).
We all commit sins but Allah loves those who after committing sins, seek forgiveness with deep sorrow and regret.
This
is the only way by which the past can be set right. Allah has a
concern for those He loves, therefore each time we slip and relapse
into the abyss of desires and sincerely repent, He (exalted be Him)
leads us out of it to the summit of forgiveness and further relieves us
of hardship and provides for us.
2. Taharah (Purification)
"...Allah loves those who keep themselves pure and clean." (Surah Al Baqarah 2:222)
This
is the external purification. The secret to this is performing the
acts with the intention of following the example of the Prophet (peace
and blessings be upon him).
The
removal of filth from the body by performing wudhu (ablution) and
ghusl (ritual bath) and removal of filth from the garment, body and
place of prayer. They are acts that purify the body and radiate the
Iman. It is a means by which Almighty Allah will wipe out our sins and
raise our ranks.
3. Taqwa (Piety)
"...for Allah loveth the righteous (the pious)." (Surah Al Tawbah 9:4)
The
fear of Allah is the source of a pure soul – it is borne out of love
and obedience. Thus, a pious person is constantly driven to do good
only.
He/She
is humble and does not flaunt piety in front of others. The fear of
Allah beautifies the Iman and is the origin of all good as one continues
to strive to do only what pleases Allah and stay away from the things
that would displease him.
Piety is an internal quality as the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"The piety is here, (and while saying so) he pointed towards his chest thrice." (Sahih Muslim, Book #032, Hadith #6219) and it is a quality that puts us above others in the sight of Allah.
4. Ihsan (Goodness & Perfection)
"...for Allah loves those who do good;-" (Surah Ali 'Imran 3:134)
Prophet Muhammad(pbuh) says,
"Ihsan
is to worship Allah as if you see Him, and if you cannot achieve this
state of devotion then you must consider that He is looking at you." (Sahih Bukhari, Book #2, Hadith #47)
Ihsan
goes beyond a noble trait; it is an integral part of Islam. It is the
secret to an attentive heart – knowing that Allah is watching
everything. This fills the heart with respect and veneration and one
becomes too embarrassed to go against Allah's commands. It promotes
performance of good deeds for the sake of Allah and not for show-off or
to gain praise or fame.
5. Tawakkul (Trust in Allah)
"...For Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)." (Surah Ali 'Imran 3:159)
The
secret and reality of trust in Allah is the reliance of the heart on
Allah alone. Therefore trusting in Allah by word of mouth is different
from trusting in Him by the heart.
Reliance
is doing and hoping; doing everything necessary within one's
capability to achieve one's aim and hoping with tranquility of heart
and soul and putting one's trust in Allah with firm belief that
whatever the outcome might be, it is as a result of the Will of Allah
and His Decree.
One
should never feel that too much time has passed by without
supplications being answered; rather we should always place our hope on
the One who is able to do all things. Prophet Muhammad (peace and
blessings be upon him ) says, "If you all
depend on Allah, with due reliance, He would certainly give you
provision as He gives to birds who go forth hungry in the morning and
return with full bellies at dusk" (At-Tirmidhi)
6. Qist (Justice)
"...for Allah loveth those who judge in equity." (Surah Al Ma'idah 5:42)
"...for Allah loves those who are fair (and just)." (Surah Al Hujurat 49:9)
Justice
is a prerequisite to peace which is missing in our contemporary
society. It involves giving other people the right we give ourselves,
treating people the way we would like to be treated.
Justice sounds like a word meant for the leaders alone but rather it affects us all.
It means:
- To be equitable in speech and in actions.
- With no degree of discrimination or false testimony.
- It involves being fair with regards to one's family and those
who are in our custody; justice between children by not giving one
preference over the other.
- By not committing wrong against oneself such as engaging in sinful practices and immoral acts.
- Justice with Allah in not associating any being with Him in worship and obedience.
7. Sabr (Patience)
"...And Allah Loves those who are firm and steadfast (As-Sabirin (the patient))." (Surah Ali 'Imran 3:146)
Patience
is one of the most noble of virtues and traits. It is to endure what
one dislikes with a sense of acceptance and submission and anticipating
Allah's reward.
Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "patience to Iman is like the head to a body: if the head is cut off, the body perishes as well." (Gems and jewels – wise sayings, interesting events & moral lessons from the Islamic history, compiled by Abdul-Malik Mujahid (Darussalam))
Muslims
should adhere to patience when afflicted with calamity and should not
yield either to desperation nor despondence because if we are patient,
everything that was destined and preordained for us will occur and we
will be rewarded. If we complain and are hopeless, then all that was
destined for us will still occur, but we will be blamed for our
impatience at Allah's Will.
Seven Qualities that Allah does not Love
1. Israaf (extravagance)
"...But waste not by excess: for Allah loveth not the wasters (Al-Musrifun (those who waste by extravagance))." (Surah Al An'am 6:141)
Excessive
spending and lavishness in everything is the core of evil and leads to
greater evil. It makes one forget the hereafter and preparing for it.
Such acts would be a cause of humiliation and disgrace on the Day of
Judgment.
That
is why Almighty Allah has prescribed zakah (obligatory alms) and
sadaqah (voluntary charity) in order to bless the wealth and to curb
extravagance in eating, drinking, clothing and in everything we do.
2. Istikbaar (Pride)
"...verily He loveth not the arrogant (proud)." (Surah Al Nahl 16:23)
And the Prophet says,
"Pride is to completely disregard the truth and scorn (looking down upon) the people" (Muslim)
Sometimes
a person might be deceived by his/ her knowledge, wealth and property,
lineage and ancestry, or worship and be arrogant and boastful.
Al-Hasan Al-Basri advised that: "Do
not become proud merely because you worship often, for consider what
happened to Iblis after he spent a great deal of time worshipping" (Gems and jewels – wise sayings, interesting events & moral lessons from the Islamic history, compiled by Abdul-Malik Mujahid (Darussalam))
Pride is among the greatest means of damage to a person's wealth and circumstances. It distances one away from Allah's love and "He who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of pride shall not enter paradise." (Sahih Muslim, Book #001, Hadith #0166)
3. Mukhtal fakhoor (Arrogant boaster)
"...for Allah loveth not any arrogant boaster." (Surah Luqman 31:18)
Being
arrogant and boastful are a deadly combination – beauty, knowledge,
wealth and noble lineage should be taken as gifts from Almighty Allah
and one should be humble and grateful for them rather than make them a
means of pride and oppression.
Servants
of Allah cannot be true to themselves as long as they are flattering
themselves, walking in an arrogant manner and looking down on people who
are inferior to them and not mix with them. The one who is arrogant in
this world will be disgraced on the Day of Judgment.
Prophet Muhammad says, "The
arrogant will be gathered on the Day of Judgment in the form of small
ants. Humiliation will surround them from everywhere." (At-Tirmidhi)
4. Udwaan (Transgression)
"...for Allah loveth not those given to excess (Transgression)." (Surah Al Ma'idah 5:87)
Human
characteristics have limitations, which if surpassed would be
transgression and if one falls short of it, it would be a defect – for
example, generosity has a limitation, when surpassed, it becomes
extravagance, when courage is surpassed, it becomes rashness; when
ibadah (worship) is surpassed, one falls into the risk of adopting
bid’ah - some of the Companions almost fell into this trap.
Narrated by Anas bin Malik: "A
group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet
asking how the Prophet worshipped (Allah), and when they were informed
about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, "Where
are we from the Prophet as his past and future sins have been
forgiven." Then one of them said, "I will offer the prayer throughout
the night forever." The other said, "I will fast throughout the year
and will not break my fast." The third said, "I will keep away from the
women and will not marry forever." Allah's Apostle came to them and
said, "Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah, I am more
submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and
break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not
follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my
followers)."" (Sahih Bukhari, Book #62, Hadith #1)
Therefore,
moderation is the best way to deal with all matters – it is not to
exaggerate and make it hard for ourselves by prohibiting the permissible
things. And not to transgress the limits by excessively indulging in
the permissible matters but rather we should only use what satisfies our
need and not fall into extravagance.
5. Zulm (Evil, wrongdoing)
"...but God loveth not those who do wrong (Zalimun (oppressors, polytheists and wrong doers))." (Surah Ali 'Imran 3:57)
This
is a reprehensible trait whose existence spoils the Iman and darkens
the heart. The wrongdoers are those who have chosen the tempting
transient life instead of the hereafter. All acts of wrongdoing such as
stealing, breach of trust, embezzlement, usurping the rights of others,
and bribery, have serious consequences in the hereafter.
In a Hadith, Abu Dharr reported Allah's
Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying that Allah, the Exalted
and Glorious, said: "My servants, I have made oppression unlawful for
Me and unlawful for you, so do not commit oppression against one
another." (Sahih Muslim, Book #032, Hadith #6246)
6. Khiyaanah (Treachery)
"...for Allah loveth not the treacherous." (Surah Al Anfal 8:58)
The
treacherous one is two-faced and inconsistent in words and deeds. Acts
of treachery lead to betrayal, disloyalty, perfidy, deception and
hypocrisy which in turn soil the Iman.
7. Ifsaad (Mischief-making)
"...And Allah loveth not those who do mischief." (Surah Al Ma'idah 5:64)
This
is a comprehensive term which includes great crimes, sins, oppression,
carrying false tales, hypocrisy, tyranny and all kinds of mischief.
All these acts are despicable and stain the Iman.
Hasten today to adopt the qualities
that Almighty Allah loves and don't rest until they become second
nature to you; hasten today to abandon all the qualities Allah does not
love and don't relent until you hate them with all your heart. The
Prophet said: "Faith wears out in the heart of any one of you just as
clothes wear out, so ask Allah to renew the faith in your hearts." (Al-Haakim in Al-Mustadrak and Al-Haythami in Majma Az-Zawaa'id)
Therefore the key is supplication, resorting to Allah and sincere desire to please Him followed by action, so we say,
"O Allah make Iman beloved to us and beautify it in our hearts."